When do we fall in love?

We have to be sure the love we feel is mutual. A depressed person can not fall in love because he is out of hope – and hope is necessary to be able to love someone. With doubt there is no love!

We fall in love when we are ready to leave one experience behind and want to explore again to realize a dream. When we are unsatisfied with our current situation and seek a new start - a rebirth. This could be when we start a new school or get a new job, or while traveling, or when being in a loveless relationship etc.

That’s why there are so many love affairs on trips, at work, abroad and so on. To be away from home could encourage falling in love, since it often liberates us from conflicting feelings.

Falling in love can also happen suddenly after a separation or loss.

We can fall in love several times in our life, but we stay mostly with one love. Some people say they fall in love all the time but they probably mix up love with attraction. Falling in love is deeper then that – you don’t want to replace the one you fall in love with!